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3 to 5 years

Children between ages 3 to 5 years are likely to show more confidence, having moved from a wobbly toddler to a young child with more muscle. Their fine motor skills also become more controlled. Tamariki learn best when they're relaxed and having fun.


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Becoming independent

Becoming independent

Tamaiti is becoming aware that they're a unique individual. They'll be working out friendships and how relationships work. Their awareness increases about other people's feelings.

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Physical development

Physical development

Tamaiti is developing more control of their body and strength in their muscles. They may also go through a growth spurt. Their skills will consolidate through repeated practice.

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Language and communication

Language and communication

Although language ability varies, by the age of 3 many will be using 4-word sentences. Their vocabulary increases depending on the amount and quality of the language they hear.

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Play and learning

Play and learning

At ages 3 to 5 activities can seem more like miniature adult activities, and a child's sense of humour is developing as they are learning about how things 'ought' to be.

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